Get At Big Picture Goals By Simply Doing This One Thing
During a marathon, there are ups & downs. I do not think life is like a marathon however, I believe it’s much more arduous and resembles a 100-mile trail run.
Completing marathons used to be my goal, but now, they are just training runs. The limits we set on how great we can be, how much money we can make, or how many people we can impact are truly inside of the limits we place upon ourselves. Once we reach a summit in our lives, there becomes another to reach.
The marathon of 26.2 miles is indeed still a great accomplishment. I had a coach call me up recently because their colleague had signed up for the 26.2 mile race, yet the furthest she ran up to that point was 10 miles. And the race was in three days!!
They called the correct person!! Because even though, I don’t recommend it, I have finished a 1/2 ironman with no bike and less than 10 days of training.
My advice after listening to her passion and “why” behind this endeavor was simple…. It’s the ONE THING we need to do when striving for audacious achievements.
Keep the picture small. We get at big picture goals by keeping it small.
Too often, it’s the big picture thinking and goals, and aspirations that actually get in our way… The picture becomes way too big.
We start to think about where we currently are and where we want to be, and that the gap almost instantaneously seems much larger and longer. When we come to terms with how far we must go, then a defeatist mindset can easily creep in.
It is a difficult mindset to get away from because of the years of echoes etched inside our mind. “Keep the big picture in mind” blah, blah, blah.
It’s natural to focus on the result, the product, and the outcome. The issue with that thinking is it takes us immediately away from the process and the task at hand!
Getting at big picture goals is only achieved by keeping the picture small.
My advice to this marathon warrior was this: JUST THIS MILE.
Focus only on this mile, and when your mind drifts to how much further you have to go, hit the rest button and refocus. I also have to remember this on the daily and especially during my own races!
The reality is that mile 14 or 15 may indeed be awful and suck. There’s no denying that.
But, just because mile 14 or 15 is poor, DOES NOT mean that mile 18 or 20 will be the same way! The flip side of the reality coin is we all have a second wind in life! And we will hit it, IF we stay focused on the short-term, the task at hand, this shot, this step, this breath, and just this moment.
Yesterday ended last night…
Merely because Monday was awful, or February was poor, or we lost last week, or got beat, literally has no bearing on this moment, this event, or situation. That’s the truth! Setbacks can have an influence on our belief patterns and mindset moving forward, but it still has no vote toward any future successes (unless we let it).
What is so troubling about setbacks is that we allow it to get at big picture goals, by taking that difficult period and making it larger than what it really is….
Our beliefs can become “If February was this bad, then how can this month possibly be better” or “If I can’t win here, how can I possibly win next week” or “If I’m not successful at this level, then how can I reach my goals.” and so on and so on.
After we have our vision , it doesn’t do us much good to keep looking at them.
Goals are like the sun, we can’t stare at them.
Staying in the moment allows us to rally and perform our best when it matters the most. KEEP THE PICTURE SMALL!
Dr. Rob Bell is a Sport Psychology Coach. His company DRB & associates coach executives and professional athletes and is based in Indianapolis. Some clients have included three winners on the PGA Tour, Indy Eleven, University of Notre Dame, Marriott, and Walgreens.
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