5 Ways to Respond to Adversity
I was caddying in a professional PGA Tour event and I caused my golfer a two-shot penalty. My golfer was the one who responded to the situation and didn’t react.
Think of a reactor, and you get a vision of a nuclear power plant or a chemical bond. A reactor is someone who can’t keep his or her cool under pressure. Picture a responder on the other hand, and you get a first responder, someone who has been trained to handle adversity.
We need to be a responder, not a reactor.
When we respond to adversity, it is devoid of emotion and we usually make good decisions. However, when we react, it is full of emotion and many careers and mistakes have occurred due to a bad reaction.
Adversity is sneaky, it shows up when we are most vulnerable. Just remember that life isn’t fair and you don’t need it to be in order to overcome! Use these five tactics instead.
- Breathe and remain calm– Nothing good is achieved when we overreact or panic.
- Walk Away- Do not make any immediate replies to email or texts or posts when upset or angry.
- Make a Play- Channel your frustration into the next play. USE that energy!
- Use a Time-Out- Allow yourself some time to ease the frustration, and focus on the solution, become a problem solver.
- Slow Down- Everything appears to speed up after a mistake. When under pressure, be sure to walk slowly, talk slowly, and eat slowly.
These are the five ways you can respond to adversity and not react. Here is an amazing infographic!
Dr. Rob Bell is a Sport Psychology Coach. His company DRB & Associates is based in Indianapolis. Some clients have included: Indy Eleven, University of Notre Dame, Marriott, and Walgreens. Check out all the books.
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